ya lost me at hello

Here's something I don't get, how is it that you can be friends with someone and not have anything in common and nothing to talk about? Amber, this chick with a kid who keeps calling and texting me because we're friends. She's the one that was just popping out of the car asap after I took her out. anyway. I hung out with her last night, her kid was out, she turned off the lights to watch a movie, but didn't sit next to me, and really didn't talk to me much. I almost fell asleep. She texted me the other day when i was going to bed, asked what I was doing. i said going to bed, U? she sent back, watching the game and having a drink, night. Ok I figured that's the end of it, but get a text, wish I had someone to watch it with and get a drink with. *SIGH* I know this conversation, even though I'm notdating her, I know it's not over. "Do you want to call me?" "Not if you're going to sleep." lie lie lie, If she was worried about me going to sleep she would have left it with "night" so I sent back "Call me" was she distressed, depressed or any other way upset? nope. What did we talk about? I have no idea.

I know she's not interested. She doesn't act interested. She doesn't like any of the things I like, She is a real neat freak, which I am fairly slovenly. It's like after hanging out for an hour or two, oop, she's done. See ya, text ya later. But it's like If I don't txt back because I have nothing to say or nothing worth saying, and don't call I get this txt that's like, "I haven't heard from you this week, are you mad at me?" I wish I had the stones to confront her about it, "What does this thing mean to you? Why do you keep talking to me? Are you like vaguely interested, but not enough to put yourself out? Are you just confused by my not trying to get physical with you?"

In short, I carry on with this because A. It's harmless, and B. it's a novelty.